One thing is certain, Tantric sex is not for everyone. Tantra requires a level of consciousness that is based on energetic and spiritual enlightenment. In a nutshell, the foundation of Tantric sexual practice is learning to generate copious amounts of orgasmic energy, and pilotage it up the energetic pathways that target the spiritual faculties that reside in the brain. It is in the brain spot sexual energy, the clever energy from which we all sprang, transforms consciousness. In this way, a new perceptual reality can be born that gives birth to Combination Consciousness ( Singleness ). Saints and sages throughout time have attempted to outline this “ no - mind, ” pure consciousness state, whereby the standout experience is a feeling of agreement with all of creation combined with the an act that divinity is within.
As a Tantra Yoga Instructor, my approach to esoteric womanliness is to inspire within you a reinterpretation of your own sexual behavior so that you may come to know sex not only as healthy, wholesome, pleasureful, and fun, but also a vehicle for divine understanding. It should be noted that the true function of orgasm, beyond ecstatic pleasure, is to transfer a lift - off that propels us into a totally new dimension of spiritual awareness that at last leads to higher consciousness. Accomplished male lovers learn to savor and e - smacker - t - e - n - d the orgasmic build - up, by withholding ejaculation, as a means of cultivating sexual energy.
It should be noted that tantric sexual techniques were primarily designed for men, owing to unlike women, men lose vital life - force energy when they ejaculate. This loss of vital energy is reflected in their diminished erectile capacity, the immediate loss of activity in their partner, the waning of their sexual want, the need for sleep and their inability to access the spiritual dimension through sex. Seminal retention was developed not only to reconcile this gender imbalance, but also to protect complete female sexual enjoyment.
However, the path to spiritual enlightenment through the vehicle of ecstatic sex requires a sexual skill set that enables a man to surrender intensely into high states of arousal, on the “ cutting edge” of orgasmic release, just before the point - of - no - return, but without spilling over and pealing the system. Chronic ejaculators, who are forever short - circuiting the orgasmic build - up with their incessant and generally premature discharges, may be unaware that the physical body has a much greater capacity for consuming pleasure if ejaculation is invisible and the system is allowed to stay up and running.
Let’ s not dial out that as men, we only experience pleasure until we ejaculate. Thereafter, we enter a less than fine intractable wonder when our erectile capacity is diminished and our penis does not like to be touched. That in itself wouldn’ t be so bad if it wasn’ t accompanied by a post - ejaculatory letdown that tends to sabotage the close emotional bond that lovemaking induces, and that many women find so appealing. For all these reasons, male ejaculation is a very much overrated source of sexual pleasure and calling it the “ climax” of pleasure is really just a bad habit renounced over from early programming.
While virtually every man knows the fleeting pleasure of an ejaculation, to achieve a in reality e - touch - t - e - n - d - e - d ecstatic response, a method must be swamped just before the point - of - know - return, to prevent, or at incipient delay ejaculation. Here’ s how it works! Each time a man approaches the point - of - no - return; he employs a simple technique that contracts the internal muscles used in sex. It’ s coinciding to squeezing out the last drop after urinating, but with a different intent.
This squeezing trip of his “ sex muscles” must be in the form of a protracted retention until the druthers to ejaculate passes and his erection softens. When an ejaculation is successfully averted, we call this a holdback. When properly toned, the sex muscles are well trained to prevent an unwanted ejaculation. Holdbacks hand not only in prolonging lovemaking, but also building arousal to massed peaks once stimulation is resumed. An new fairing is that the development of the sex muscles provides men with the awesome ability to orgasm without ejaculating. This is convincing for it assures men that there is no pleasure distress. After every successful holdback, as away as the yen to ejaculate passes, stimulation may resume. When the point - of - no - return is once again approached, greater holdback may be engrossed.
In theory, versed male lovers may employ an zillion numeral of holdbacks in any lovemaking call. With no ejaculation destined, the lovemaking huddle for the man is free to grow up into what has come to be known as repeatitive, almost - ejaculation - pleasure - peaks. These pleasure peaks are what amounts to the male parable of multiple orgasms that the most piqued women experience. Once a man learns to buy for multiple, full - body, orgasmic pleasure peaks in place of a conventional ejaculation - - - any approaching ejaculations may be definitive utterly excess.
By delaying ejaculation, holdbacks give more time for the orgasmic energy to circulate throughout the body until every cell in the body becomes sexually engorged, not just the genitals. Holdbacks also outfit an flying high orgasmic response of just slightly less sentiment than a full - blown ejaculation - orgasm, but peculiar ejaculation, they have the advantage of reoccurring again and again. If a man pays suffocating trust, he will heed that the most acutely enthralling time that he experiences is the interval right before ejaculation would transpire - - - just beneath the orgasmic tomb point. Here, exists a very special “ doorway” that is virtually elfin to the sappy learner. When this threshold is entered thoughtfully, with keen awareness and qualification, ejaculation can be averted, or tardy, at slightest until your beloved has had as many orgasms as she desires. Of course, we also are provided with a most agonizing intensity of pleasure.
With practice, any man can learn to successfully carry through this “ doorway” so that the interval just before capper can be savored and prolonged for maximum pleasure. The key for men is to familiarize themselves with the point just before ejaculation inevitability. It’ s at that point locality trained male lovers and their cooperative bunch cease all stimulation. They learn to relax in calmness together safely nestled in the ecstatic space between the world of summit arousal and orgasmic release.
Of course, relaxing on the cutting edge is a bit like animated across a tight rope high main the ground. One unexpected slip and it’ s over. The challenge for every man is to stay in curb so as not to bring down the system with an unwanted discharge of orgasmic energy. Using a cautionary approach, a Tantric man learns to play on the cutting edge of orgasmic release like a master surfer successfully peregrination gesture after light signal to rib.
The longer the sexual discharge is overdue, the more the arousal heightens until the expanding orgasmic energy at the base of the spinal canal can no longer be contained in the genital area, and so, the energy begins to ascend. The upward movement of energy is entirely prevalent and internal, survey up the energy pathways like irresistible upshot of ever increasing bliss. This phenomenon is known as “ raising tantric energy” and is the basic roadmap for transforming orgasmic energy into spiritual power. By the time the orgasmic energy ascends into the brain, an alchemical refinement of the energy has taken place and consciousness is transformed.
