How To Flirt With A Girl

Hi, this is Guide Cortez, creator of the Mack Tactics dating system for men.

I want to share with you some tips on how to flirt with women that have worked really well for me.

In my book Mack Tactics I clarify how human nature is the deciding factor in the way men and

women relate to each other. Every time we converse with a girl, there is so much going on beneath the surface... signals and messages flying back and forth that we aren ' t consciously aware of.

Tote the Goofed signals, and women are going to be instinctively overripe off... no matter how

sharp you look, or how clever you are with conversation.

Convey the RIGHT signals, and the women are going to feel an undeniable ATTRACTION towards you.

Here are some quick tips on how to flirt with a girl, that are based on human nature:

* When you engage a woman in conversation, be aware of how you angle your body. Men cherish to talk to each other at angles to avoid confrontation. Women face each other head - on and maintain eye contact. You should engage them the same way.

* Handshakes are very important. Often, this is your first opening at " keno " ( establishing physical contact. ) Our hands are filled with tactile nerves. If your handshake is loose and feels wet, you ' re signaling that you are anxious, and this will naturally elevate HER stress levels.

Give her hand a firm, but not bone - crushing, grasp. Salary attention to her grip also.

I ' ve found that women who give firmer handshakes nurse to be more adventurous. This must come from the actuality that they ' re more easy socially, and confident in themselves.

* As the conversation develops, use body contact to build the sense of connection and generate scorching. Subtly touch her knee as you tell a story. Put your hand on hers for a brief moment, as you both laugh at a sally.

( Her inner forearm is a GREAT spot to use a flirting touch, since this band of her body is rich with nerves. ) But don ' t look at your hand as you touch her. Just do it, as if it ' s a completely natural indicate.

* Women are attracted to too many - willing men. This suggests high testosterone levels, which is a sign of strength and reproductive ability. If you don ' t have a naturally buried voice, lower your tone slightly when you engage her in conversation.

Speaking slower also helps when you are flirting with a girl. A buried voice, combined with eye contact, can have a hypnotic ( and keenly attractive ) reaction.

Also, talk at the same swiftness she does. This enhances the sense that the two of your are connecting and bonding.

Pocket watch an exposed guy flirt with girls, and he ' ll midpoint always speak at a faster cement than she does. ( This is very true with " gelastic guys, " who try to use constant jokes as substitute for real conversation. )

* Mirror her body language. Couples who are attracted to each other nurse to subconsciously " mirror " each other. By mirroring her, you are again building the sense that you are connecting on a exceeding level.

* DON ' T fidget. This sends the message that you are nervous, and will trigger the release of stress chemicals in her brain. When you are in order and relaxed, you encourage her to go with your flow. You don ' t need to use a lot of flirting body language. Just be relaxed and well-heeled, and smile and maintain eye contact.

* When women sense that a bond is developing, her brain will release dopamine, a temper booster. Create this bond by getting her to talk about herself and her interests and passions, and indicate your concernment with nods and short phrases

( " Oh my Holy spirit, that ' s so true. " " Hmm, that ' s really turn-on. " " Go on, tell me more. " " I completely consent. " " I feel the same way " ).

( There are going to be times when you ' ll want to bother her or " neg " her, to build sexual tension, and I account for how to do this CORRECTLY in the Mack Tactics program... but when she ' s speaking about things that matter to her, you always want to subscribe to trot out compatibility. )

* Next tip when you are flirting with girls: know that women are instinctively listening for signs of your extroverted rank and / or wealth.

Women are skittish to go after men who can ok them and stock for a family. So while it ' s important to flaunt these capabilities, you should keep any references to your capital or personal success hazy.

When you flirt with women it ' s better to make her impatient, and turn a sense of mystery around yourself. Instead of answering her pronto when she asks what you do for a living, be bewildering. ( " Let ' s just say I ' m very good at what I do, and to me it ' s a passion, not a job. " )

With your gregarious rank, it ' s also better to slip in amorphous references. ( We all anathema " name droppers. " ) Support the message that you ' re a popular, wonderful person, but don ' t be precise about it.

When you flirt with girls, speaking about your male buddies isn ' t attractive or compelling. Instead, mention your FEMALE FRIENDS to roll out that you have a strong social network. ( Every guy has male friends. Macks also have a network of biting, fun female friends. )

You can create quick stories when you flirt with women that are loaded with signs of social class, without ever sounding Conclusive, or like you ' re " trying too hard. "

For example, tell her: " This morning was daft. My friend Lisa was out of distance on a modeling shoot and I was supposed to pick her up at the airport, but there was an conjuncture on the freeway and the traffic was backed up for miles. Fortunately her plane got unpunctual so I got there on time. "

( The message: you ' ve got a friend who is a female model.,

" Oh, so you like Indian food? I found the best Indian restaurant, I took my kissing cousin Jennifer there a few nights ago to celebrate her job promotion. "

( You ' ve got a female boon companion who is crucial and successful, and you generously took her to bust. )

You get the idea. A quick " mention " of your female friends when you flirt with girls sends a powerful message to the woman you ' re language to: you ' re popular among other females, which means you must have VALUE. If the girl you ' re speaking to is digging you, this is also going to stir up an instinctual motility of jealousy... and a inclination to WIN you away from the competition.

Enshrine, YOU are the prize. Now go out there and start drama like it!