* * * " What is a True Connection? "

One of the biggest problems in relationships is the absence of a true connection.

What is a true connection?

It is a crave to be with someone, in that you want to share yourself with them and you want them to share themselves with you, too. A true connection is what exposure is all about.

The experience of sharing is so gratifying that you look forward to being with each other. You look forward to sharing what you are thinking, awareness and crave in your love relationship, and in your life.

Disconnected behavior in love relationships can sometimes look like the following: affairs, addictions to porn, drugs, alcoholism or workaholism, emotionally too close to an antithesis sex schoolmate, or too involved with a

preoccupation or some exercise. You will feel homeless when involvement is disappeared in your love relationship.

The real underlying problem with disconnected behavior is a absence of connection with yourself. Couples who are disconnected find each other. If your partner is disconnected, then you can be inarguable you are, too.

This means that you lacked the amicable of support and nurturing from your parents or primary caregivers that would have allowed you to become an adult who trusts closeness, and who can give and procure love freely or without fear.

Please take a moment right now to think about the truth of this notion. Did you grow up without true loving hold and nurturing from your caregivers? If the answer is certainly, please don ' t try to deny the pain and anguish you experienced as a child. Your body remembers what happened, and you will true have

relationship problems until you heal your greenness wounds.

You had to change your behavior to survive your juvenescence occasion, and your due behavior will very well not insert many skills to build worldliness, so

that you can enjoy a true connection today, as an adult.

Certainly, the solution is healing your troubled heart. When children don ' t get the reinforcement and nurturing they utterly need, their hearts are doomed. I am so sorry that your heart has been ruined, like mine was when I was a little girl. I can know your pain and frustration with love and life, and I can protect you, you can heal your minority wounds so you can have a true connection today with the love of your life.

Please start with changing your presumption about yourself. Do you take it you are lovable? If not, work on changing this assumption to most assuredly, I am lovable.

I didn ' t even know I could change device about my life until I was in my 30 ' s. That was when I began a very serious change process that undid alot of the abuse I suffered through, as a child.

You can transform your suffering too into joy and happiness, by learning how to love yourself. When you love yourself, you devote your energy to conclave your needs. You put yourself first, and then you are in a great position to give

love to your partner, instead of needing love to feel okay about yourself.

You can turn your love relationship into a true connection by loving yourself.

Please don ' t let added day go by without plan on healing your star-crossed heart.

By doing this, you can learn to spread out and connect with your partner,

instead of demanding that he or she do something you can ' t even do yourself.

You deserve to be loved and to love with total trust and charge.

It will fill your body, mind and soul with pure joy, and well-being. You will feel secure, and happy beyond your wildest dreams, if you totally give yourself permission to love yourself.

Healing your burdened heart is something you can do as an adult, considering you now have the mental capacity to possess that what happened to you was not your fault. And loving yourself is something that will change every attribute of your life for the better.

A true connection with your partner is a need, not a glee that some people get to have, but not you. You deserve a true connection. It is your birthright to love and be loved, and to feel the joy and happiness that comes from a true connection.

I choice you much joy and happiness on your journey to self - love.